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你必须精致

你必须精致

你必须精致

文 凌霜降


零五年的冬天,如果我再找不到工作,灰溜溜地回国几乎成是唯一的选择。

可我再一次被拒绝了。想起那个面试官的表情,我非常想抓狂。她竟然说我的形象和我的简历不相符而拒绝继续向我提问。我低头看自己的打扮,很明显,因为穿着问题,我被她鄙视了。我发誓我可以用我的能力让她收回她对我的鄙视。但我没有得到表现我的能力的机会。
我的房东莎琳娜太太是一个很苛刻的中年女人。她规定我必须十二点之前熄灯睡觉,规定我必须在十分钟之内从浴室出来,规定我如果不穿戴整齐就不准进入她的客厅,不准我用她的漂亮厨房做中餐,她甚至规定我在她有客人来访的时候必须涂口红!

我非常讨厌莎琳娜这种所谓的英伦女人的尊严。但所有人都说,莎琳娜是最好的寄宿房东。
我看不出她好在什么地方。就好比,当我很多次面试失败回来后,厨房里一点吃的都不会有。并且如果我上楼发出声音,她会站在卧室门口很大声地指责我。

我刚刚洗完头发,坐在床上一边翻看报纸的招聘信息一边吃我带回来的面包卷。这很违反了莎琳娜的原则。她冲上前来,一把夺过我的面包和报纸,用英文大吼:你这个毫无素质的中国女孩!你滚出我的家!

我于是披散着头发,在睡衣外裹上大衣冲出了门。

二十五年来,我以非常漂亮的成绩和能力一路所向披靡。从来没有人说我没有素质。
我们家并不贫穷,但二十五年来我的妈妈一直告诉我,能力才是最重要的。我不能明白以貌取人在这里居然成为一个正义的词语。这简直是对我二十五年的人生观的侮辱!
我愤怒地冲进一家咖啡馆。天气实在太冷。我也很饿。

咖啡馆里的人居然很多。侍者以一种奇怪的眼神把我引到一个空座位边。

那是咖啡馆里唯一的空位。我的对面是一个英国老太太。她看起来比莎琳娜更加讲究,就像伊莉莎白女王一样尊贵与精致。我不由下意识地收起自己宽松睡裤下的运动鞋。然后我看到她裙子下着了丝袜和漂亮高跟鞋的腿,以她这样的年纪,却仍然把这样的鞋子穿得非常迷人。

在欧洲的很多高级餐厅里,衣衫不整是被拒绝进入的。我想我能进来的原因大概是因为我穿了价值不扉的大衣。我不由得暂时收起自己的愤怒,说:给我一杯热咖啡。谢谢。

侍者走开后,对面的老太太并不看我。而是从旁边拿了一张便笺写了一行字递给我。是非常漂亮的手写英文:洗手间在你的左后方拐弯。我抬头看她,她正以非常优雅的姿势喝咖啡,没有看我半眼。我的尴尬难以言明。第一次觉得不被尊重是应该的。

我的头发被风吹得非常凌乱,我的鼻子旁边甚至还沾了一点面包屑!虽然我的大衣质地非常好,但我的睡裤被它衬得很老旧。我第一次有点看不起自己。这样的打扮,我有多不尊重自己,以至使别人觉得我也不尊重她们。我想起下午去面试时自己的日常便装,那应该也是对一个高级经理职位的不尊重吧?

当我再回到座位的时候,那个老太太已经离开了。那张留在铺了细柔的格子的餐桌上的便笺多了另一句漂亮的手写英文:作为女人,你必须精致。这是女人的尊严。

我逃也似的走出了那家咖啡厅。莎琳娜竟然坐在客厅里等我,一见我就对我说我超过了十二点十分钟才回来,所以明天必须去帮她清洗草坪。我答应了她。并向她道歉。

我发现莎琳娜教了我许多同样有用的东西:十二点之前睡觉能让我第二天精神充足,穿戴整洁美观能让别人首先尊重我,穿高跟鞋和使用口红使我得到了更多绅士的帮助,我开始感觉自己的自信非常充足而有底气,我不再希望别人看我的简历来判断我是不是有能力。
我最后一次面试,是一家大化妆品公司的市场推广。我得体的着装打扮为我的表现加了分。那个精致的干练的女上司对我说:你非常优秀。欢迎你的加入。

我没有想到,我的上司居然就是我在咖啡馆里遇到的那位英国老太太。她非常有名!是这个化妆品牌销售女皇!

我对她说:非常感谢你。
是真的非常感谢她。非常感谢她那句:作为女人,你必须精致。虽然她没有认出我。
是的。没有人有义务必须透过连你自己都毫不在意的邋遢外表去发现你优秀的内在。你必须精致。这是女人的尊严。我在后来的后来,都一直记得。<完>

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梦中谁知身是客,不过暂恋此贪欢。----- 有些事情在劫难逃.

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不近人情的淑女也有经典,这就是经典:“作为女人,你必须精致。这是女人的尊严。”

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Wall Street falls, unable to shake economic woes

Stocks got a short-lived boost from China's plans to boost its economy through a mix of spending, subsidies, looser credit policies and tax cuts. The package could benefit multinational companies with business in China such as General Electric Co. and Caterpillar Inc.




Traders work on the floor of the New York Stock Exchange Friday, November 7, 2008. [Agencies]

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But Wall Street's optimism quickly waned, as it has tended to do since the mid-September downfall of Lehman Brothers Holdings Inc. and government takeover of the troubled insurance giant American International Group.

Market participants realized that while China's stimulus is a positive sign that governments around the world are working to fix the global economy, the stimulus itself will likely have only a limited effect in the United States.
There was little news Monday to placate investors worried about the health of corporate America. AIG got more money from the US government, but the nation's struggling automakers have yet to hear whether they, too, will get federal aid. And electronics retailer Circuit City Stores Inc. filed for bankruptcy protection.

With few signs of recovery in the US economy, few investors are confident enough to make big bets on stocks, although they look cheap; the major indexes are down about 40 percent from their October 2007 peaks.

"They'd like to be optimistic, but individual investors are still very worried," said Hugh Johnson, chief investment officer of Johnson Illington Advisors. Uncertainty about the economic outlook is "likely to hold any recovery somewhat in check. We're arguably undervalued, so we can work our way higher. But it's not going to be with a lot of gusto."

According to preliminary calculations, the Dow Jones industrial average fell 73.27, or 0.82 percent, to 8,870.54, after rising by 215 points in early trading and tumbling by as many as 183. But trading was fairly orderly in the last hour -- in recent weeks, stocks have often seen high volatility late in the day.

Broader indexes also ended lower. The Standard & Poor's 500 index fell 11.78, or 1.27 percent, to 919.21, and the Nasdaq composite index fell 30.66, or 1.86 percent, to 1,616.74.

The US government said it would invest $40 billion into AIG, which also reported a nearly $25 billion third-quarter loss Monday. AIG, which got its first bailout in September, has so far received a total of $150 billion in government aid. The government's investment Monday helped the insurer's stock rise 26 cents, or 12 percent, to $2.37, but raised worries that problems in the financial sector might be worse than anticipated. Most bank shares fell.

On Friday, the major indexes rallied, but ended about 4 percent lower on the week after large mid-week losses.

"The fact is, we haven't been holding rallies very well," said Scott Fullman, director of derivatives investment strategy for WJB Capital Group. He said investors appeared be cashing out gains made Friday ahead of what's expected to be a dismal retail sales report this week, and the bond market's Veterans Day holiday Tuesday.

Anthony Conroy, managing director and head trader for BNY ConvergEx Group, said "we're in that bottoming process," but that trading is apt to be volatile at least until Nov. 15 -- the last day that hedge funds and mutual funds can get calls for redemptions for 2008. Redemptions are when investors ask for their money back.

With stocks trading erratically, investors moved to the relative safety of government bonds.

The Treasury auctioned three-year Treasury notes for the first time since May 2007, and the auction saw strong buying. Meanwhile, the three-month Treasury bill's yield fell to 0.22 percent from 0.28 percent late Friday, and the yield on the benchmark 10-year Treasury note fell to 3.76 percent from 3.79 percent late Friday.

Lower yields indicate stronger demand.

Investors are also watching for developments with General Motors Corp., Chrysler and Ford Motor Co. after the automakers met with congressional leaders last week in hopes of securing financial help.

GM -- one of the 30 companies that make up the Dow -- fell $1, or 23 percent, to $3.36. Ford shed 9 cents, or 4.5 percent, to $1.93.

Democratic leaders in the US Congress on Saturday asked the Bush administration to provide more aid to the struggling auto industry, which is losing money and shedding jobs as sales have dropped to their lowest level in a quarter century. House Speaker Nancy Pelosi and Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid said in a letter to Treasury Secretary Henry Paulson that the administration should consider expanding the $700 billion bailout program to include car companies.

On Monday, Circuit City filed for bankruptcy protection about a week after it said it would close 20 percent of its stores. The electronics retailer, based in Richmond, Va., has been struggling as nervous consumers spend less and credit has become tighter. Shares sank 15 cents, or 60 percent, to 10 cents.

In other corporate news, Tribune Co., the owner of the Los Angeles Times and Chicago Tribune, said it swung to a third-quarter loss of $121.6 million due to falling newspaper advertising sales.

Citigroup Inc. is in talks to acquire a regional bank to boost the bank's presence in areas it already operates, including the Northeast, California and Texas, according to a report in The Wall Street Journal. The report did not name a potential target. Citigroup shares fell 61 cents, or 5.2 percent, to $11.21.

The Russell 2000 index of smaller companies fell 12.69, or 2.51 percent, to 493.10.

Declining issues outnumbered advancers by about 2 to 1 on the New York Stock Exchange, where volume came to 1.14 billion shares.

A barrel of light sweet crude rose $1.37 to settle at $62.41 on the New York Mercantile Exchange.

The dollar was mixed against other major currencies, while gold prices rose.

Overseas, Japan's Nikkei stock average closed up 5.81 percent, and Hong Kong's Hang Seng index added 3.52 percent. In Europe, the Britain's FTSE 100 rose 0.89 percent, Germany's DAX added 1.76 percent, and France's CAC-40 rose 1.06 percent.


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